Category: Leaders

Five Day Reflection for Feelings of Confidence

You might recognise this. You are capable, committed and experienced, yet in certain moments you do not feel confident. You hesitate. You wait for more information. You feel less ready than you would like. These moments can be frustrating, especially when you know you can do what is being asked of you. This blog introduces… Read more »

Myth: Career success is about having a perfect plan

The Myth I am often surprised by how many coaching clients tell me they believe they should have a detailed career plan that maps out every step to a future role. They feel they ought to know exactly where they are heading and how they will get there. The reality is that this belief is… Read more »

Lessons in spontaneous leadership from my black labrador

I first wrote this article on LinkedIn in 2017. I’m sharing again as a celebration of the wonderful life of my 4-legged companion Bramble: 16/03/2014-20/05/2026. Dogs teach us so much and it hurts so much when they are no longer with us but I wouldn’t change anything about my time with her – she was… Read more »

Choosing what matters

I had a very meaningful Saturday day out last weekend. My sister and I visited Slimbridge Wildfowl and Wetlands Trust with our husbands. This was a favourite place for our parents and we have happy memories of times spent with them spotting rare birds through binoculars in hides, having picnics, jumping across the stepping stones… Read more »

Letting go of old versions of yourself

A teacher once wrote in my primary school report that I would never get anywhere if I didn’t stop worrying and being a perfectionist. Or words to that effect. I can still remember how deeply hurtful it felt at the time. I think she meant well. I hope she did. I was just trying to… Read more »

Taking ownership of your next career move

A lot of highly capable people stay in roles they’ve quietly outgrown because they’re hoping someone will eventually notice their potential. When we talk about it, they have what feel like good reasons for them such as: If any of that feels uncomfortably familiar, you’re not alone.

Overcoming self-doubt

I was due to attend a local networking event this morning but it quickly became clear that was not going to happen because the rain has been so continuous that my village is cut off due to flooding. What it has meant however is the opportunity to work further on my new programme that will… Read more »

A reflection of Gratitude

It’s that time of year again. The time when I take stock, take some rest, share lovely times with friends and family … and write a poem or reflection for my monthly Blog post! This year, I’m focusing on Gratitude .. and using the word to give me the starting letter of each paragraph (the… Read more »

The story and songs of your life

We often live our lives without taking stock of HOW we are living them and this can mean we may not be being the person we would like to be as described by others. When we are leaders and managers in the workplace, we have the opportunity to shape others’ experiences positively, neutrally or negatively… Read more »

Wanting a career change?

Ever thought that you are in the wrong type of career but feel you have invested too much to change it now? When I had the realisation I didn’t want to continue my career as an software engineer but wanted something very different, I was devastated. That’s a strong word but I am not exaggerating… Read more »